since i shoot (during one session) in different locations, different lighting types, i cant seem to figure out how to give all the photos the same look and feel.
I understand, but there is still commonality.
For example, some people might prefer a more saturated, rich color style and that can transcend lighting and environment. Some people prefer one more flat and (perhaps) more realistic. You can build this into a preset for yourself through how you use saturation, vibrance, and to some extent clarity. Presetting these a bit more up, or not, can set a general feel of how deep you like colors.
As another example, some people like contrast more, with deeper shadows and brighter highlights; some do not, and want all the detail stretched out of them. Compare a few images using the shadow/highlight near zero, and one with them set at 80/-80. Then add back some contrast with black point and white point to offset that, and you get a very different feel in the images. Neither is "right" or "wrong" but personal taste. I bet if you try a bunch of photos in different areas, over time you will find there's a setting you most often prefer -- not every single time of course, but if you can find a setting that hits 70-80% of your shots as about right, that makes a good preset for you, to embody that aspect of your style.
Your "style" can also come from workflow. If you use the same technique each time to determine the proper amount of sharpening for example, you will start to instill a similarity to your photos that may not jump out as much as saturation would, but will still be an element of your style. For example, zoomed to 200% (maybe 100%, depends on your eye) and sharpen to a consistent look takes you away from the overall image and begins to apply it more consistently. This could be good or bad, but if you are looking for a more consistent style this might help (vs just using the slider while looking at the whole image).
Rather than looking at differences in images, start looking for commonalities that speak to you as an artist, things that you can control that are (mostly) common to all shots. You'll never get 100% (if you did you could be replaced with a robot
) but you can find things to make your own.